Slacker? That may be one word for it. I'd prefer to be "mom-upationally occupied" (a new occupational word shift).
So, I have even more respect for all of you who have been moms forever, and who have bunches of kidlets that you juggle with amazing ease and smiles!!
Don't even ask me where the last 2 weeks went. If I knew, I would have found a moment to blog. Chalk it up to life and adventurous times with a very active 18 month old, who went thru some very typical 18 month old behaviors shifts with the added fun of testing limits in an "attachment testing" sort of way.... he was very clingy to me and yet, at the same time, didn't seem to know what he wanted and got frustrated with me... he's a strong kid so it got interesting at times and i think my shirt sleeves are even a little tighter as a result of extra muscle bulk.... ha ha ha.. seriously, tho, I felt bad for him for the little guy and, like sleeping (or not sleeping as it was) and eating (or not wanting new foods as it was) that "this too, shall pass".... it was funny on several occasions he'd literally go thru his litany of signs, just trying to tell me something.... but most times wasn't happy with my guessing at his pantomimes and signs.... we did all we could and kept telling him he was OK, and that we were here always for him.... anyway, it was a rapid moving time on the clock, and also a couple of busy work weeks for his mom during his naps and evenings after bedtimes...
The good news is, we are all great, and overall, our LM is just great. And we have been having a lot of fun!! Check it out for yourself.... :
First bout of fun -- we got a baby pool for our oldest baby... he loved it!!
Yup, Ashton loves his new pool....
And, he was kind enough to share it with the new baby in the house....Yes, Uncle Brian, those ARE the Quicksilver swimshorts you gave him!! :)
Quick fun things from this week:
- Visited with Grandparents Nesbitt and Aunt Linda at their pad (blah! mama ran out of the house for this fun playdate without a camera!!) -- loved playing ball and chasing around Pumpkin, the orange kitty!
- Baby pool -- had to hide it after a few days in a row of fun-- every time we went into the back yard, he thought it should be filled up and played in -- not always feasible, so off it went to the "mysterious" side of the house...
- Better going down for naps and bedtime! YAHOO!!! naps about 10 minutes and down for the sugar plums... Bedtime down to about 30 minutes, but no crying -- reading books, shut off light, and flop around, chattering to self
- Stuffed animal fun... began to hug and chat with stuffed animals in the car-- Lion in Mama's car and a Monkey in Papa's car. Super cute!!!
- Making LOTS of noise, but only in the house -- and only when no one is around. We are not making this up. He really does talk endlessly until someone else shows up or we go out.
- Cars are suddenly very cool to push around -- and, did you know they have a front and a back? LM learned that somehow (we didn't teach him, he just figured it out!) and is always quick to turn the cars in the "right" direction before pushing them all over the place...
- Favorite toy #1 -- the Box with the cool handle (easy side carrier box)
- Favorite toy #2 -- the OTHER cool box with the cool handle (the grocery cart seat cover) -- poll do you use one??
OK, well, we can't have it ALL be about our incredible LM, can we?? This week marks the week, 5 years ago, that our first pre-named child, Ashton, came to live with us... yes, for all you who keep teasing that we named our children "A" names -- remember, we didn't. Our children came with their identities. Ashton arrived from Canine Partners for Life, a fantastic service dog organization, as a puppy, in early July, 2004....We raised him for his puppy year, sent him back for training, and he decided he was not fit to be a service dog, nor a police dog. Goldie Locks puppy, Ashton, found that things were "just right" for him down by the river. Jeff, in his great humor, came up with this little treat of a photo.... Funnier still was LM's reaction, like "hey, that is MY chair, what are you doing up there?".....So, not to be outdone by his furry older sib.... :





4 comments:
It is hard to believe that today, July 13, is two months since court day! The wait seemed endless but what a reward! You two are doing an amazing job with a great little boy. "Slacker" is NOT the word that applies to you, Amy. More like "Supermom"--remember that word? You have been with him every day since May 10 and since he's been home, and you have given him everything any little guy in this situation could want and need and it shows! He's learning to feel secure and loved enough to let others{ME :-)} hold him and to play freely knowing you are there. You manage to still give so much of yourself to your job(s) while not taking time away from him or Jeff. All LM's "firsts" are so fun to see for us and you and it is obvious how much you enjoy being LMs Mommy. Everyone who knows you knows that they have not seen you smile so much and we are loving it. Happy 8 weeks! Love, M (and Carl)
Two months ago today we picked up Kristina and headed out to Moscow...to see you guys. Can you believe it???
I love seeing all of LMs photos...and Ashton, too! And I agree...slacker is definitely not a term to be associated with YOU!
OK -- gotta go back to your blog so Kristina can continue dancing!
Love,
L.
ha! Love Ashton on the chairs. :)
and, I'm impressed you blog once a week! That is a big commitment-it takes a long time to go thru pictures, and collect your thoughts. I think we all understand. :)
I try to do monthly updates for Leeza-and i do more if she does something "blog worthy" that I want to document (like a vacation, or a new skill, or something that if I don't note now, i will forget-which is really why I continue to blog anyway!)
LM is doing great-seriously great-and it's amazing to me that he's only been home less than 2 months. You should be very proud of yourselves, and him (but i know you are!!) We are lucky that Leeza has always been a great sleeper (yes, we are missing a kindermusic class right now, cuz it started at 10:30 and she is STILL ASLEEP) but i refuse to wake up a sleeping baby recovering from vacation. :)
We don't use grocery cart covers. I usually have her in the ergo-and when Sean is with us, he gets her the big,cumberson "car cart" that I refuse to struggle with. She has gone in the regular cart but is not the type to try to eat the bar,so I don't worry about it. Heck..I always forget my bags in the car, i would never remember the grocery cover. :)
WONDERFUL UPDATE and really-cute yourself a lil slack....bi-weekly or monthly is or whenever a blog worthy moment strikes is good! :)
Ok, that picture with Aslan on Ashton is way too funny. The best part is how Ashton seems to have usurped the toy car, like, "go ahead kid, get on my back and play horsey, but your toys are all now MINE!"
No on the grocery cart cover thing. I'm building up K's immune system by letting her fight off all those germs...or alternately...I had no idea those things even existed until long after we started shopping without them.
And it sounds like when K and Aslan get married, it will be a total whine fest. Lately, she complains about everything and who knows what the real problem is? Let's just marry them off now and let them whine to each other. hahahaha.
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